Censoring Your Life

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The opinion of others is a heavy, sticky web. Comments on what you say and do give you this temporary high of acceptance. It's great when you find like-minded people that vibe the same way as you, and that understand your love for things. But if you're putting off what you want to do, because you're afraid of your friends/family/strangers not approving, then it's a problem. Which is normally what happens.

So, let’s try something. Let's stop thinking of what everyone is going to think if you do something. Block out the opinions, stop doubting yourself, and just do it.

You want to be a cheerleader even though you are super shy? Great, start practicing.

You want to run a marathon but spend all your free time on Tumblr? Wonderful, get a pair of running shoes and make a training schedule.

You want to write a novel even though you freeze up in front of a blank page? Fantastic, get a voice recorder out and speak your plot, listen to it later and transcribe it.

You want to tell the cute dude off everytime he makes a misogynistic joke? I’m right behind you darling, burn him.

Here’s the thing, everything you really want to do in life is going to be looked down upon by someone. Sadly, it may be someone you love and trust. Your heart will break, and you'll feel betrayed. But then you need to uncurl from the existential crisis lump you rolled up in and get started doing what you want. Because fuck'em. If they love you, they'll come around in time. If not? Then they weren't that great to begin with.

I want you to promise yourself something. After reading this, you are going to pull out a piece of paper and write down every last thing you want to do, but have been too afraid of doing. Pick out one or two things that really twist your stomach, and then get to work on them.

I'm over simplifying how easy wants and dreams can be done, but the idea remains the same. If you are constantly thinking about what other people want you to do, your life won't be a lovely one. You can make your life as dull or interesting as you wish. Show everyone who doubted you what a bad ass you are.

Tell me below what you've been putting off for fear of what others will think.